In 2012, my 15-year-old daughter was upset about a friend who was being bullied on the popular social media site, Facebook. She shared with me the video of two “mean girls” (girl bullies) spouting offensive and ugly things about her friend on another teen’s homepage. The “mean girls” made the slanderous video difficult to remove because it was posted on another person’s Facebook wall.
My daughter wanted to jump in and support her friend. I too wanted her to stand up to the “mean girls” and stand for her friend. I was just unsure how to do that and still keep her safe.
As a teacher and a mentor for junior high and high school girls, I know first hand the difference education makes and the devastation ignorance can play.
After I did some research, I was horrified to discover girl bullying is on its way to becoming an epidemic. Girl bullying is all too often covert, easily overlooked as the unfortunate part of forming cliques and social groups. Where boys often use physical intimidation to have power over their peers, girls use social power to intimidate. Relationships are used as weapons to inflict emotional pain through ostracizing, social isolation, or ruining someone’s social standing in the popularity hierarchy by way of rumors. This is nothing new, but with social media playing such an important part in everyday life, rumors spread can hit Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram and Twitter in a matter of seconds. This affects not only the victim’s own peer group, but every peer group on planet earth. The damage can often feel permanent.
The Mean Girl Extinction Project is a 501 (C)3 Non-Profit organization. Our mission is to end girl on girl bullying. We strive to raise awareness and encourage girls to create a culture of kindness in girl world through hands on assemblies, workshops, events and service projects. In addition, we are a resource for parents and educators who are key partners in helping to support a healthy community for girls. We acknowledge girl bullying is unique, therefore we utilize our distinct voice in order to eradicate the mean girl mentality and cultivate kindness in girl world.
You can check our our website here: The Mean Girl Extinction Project
Cultivating kindness in girl world,
Shaylene King
Founder/President